I wasn’t as offended when the boys in my school called me “muka buruk macam pantat babi” as I was when @LoveShak called me “bangkai”.
For me, the language you use in addressing people shows the person you are.
I was raised to the fact that even using “aku kau” at home is rude. We say “kamu” and address ourselves with our names.
The Cosmic Abyss 